I have a pretty good life. I have a full time job (even if it is boring.) I have a great spouse and marriage and I have no children. I have money to pay the bills and even some extra to spend. I get to go out and have fun, relax and enjoy myself when I want to.
My life is so “pretty good” that I let my head get full of other people’s problems. Other people’s money problems, family problems, and even friend problems. All these problems that I have read about or spoken about roll around in my head waiting for me to come up with a solution. Even if it is not my place to work on these, it happens.
The gears in my head are always turning.
I realized that I am quite boring in person. Even though I have done and seen things, I cannot tell the story well (just not one of my skills.) I think have always supplemented my boringness with the problems of other people, things for me to mull over and solve. Got money issues, I will mull over it and see if I can come up with anything that might help. Significant other dressing like a slob, I will mull over it and see if I can suggest anything that will change the behavior (just let them know what you think of their cloths.) Need an idea for a story, game or other project? Let me mull it over, I will have something for you, probably lots of somethings.
The only time this becomes a problem is when I cannot come up with a feasible solution. I have tons of ideas on how to market your product (I really do) but you are going to have to invest time and probably money. If you are broke, that does not really help any. I wish I had more money to throw at the problem for you, but I cannot afford to do that (not to the amount needed, anyway.) I have time to help, but I cannot DO it for you. I wish I could, but I am not as skilled at (your skill here) as you are.
All I can do is give you suggestions. If you choose to put the time and effort into the suggestion, I know it will turn out well.
Today my head is full of other people’s problems, and I cannot do much about it. I just let them float around and propagate solutions that will probably never be used, so sad.
Not being able to act on the ideas is the most frustrating thing for me, and others like me. The ideas are there, like ripe apples on a tree. All you have to do is reach up and take them. I would rather you take my idea and run with it, then let it rot on the tree. Yes the idea can come back next time the tree fruits, but it is not always the same and not always as tasty. Taking an idea is not stealing if I am okay with it. Plus you taking an idea, vs letting it rot, will allow me to have more ideas, better ideas.
I would really love to make all my ideas a reality on my own, but I am not really able to. I do not have the skills needed for many of them.
So, let me know if you are in need of an idea. I will mull over it and let you know. I will even sketch things out.